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do you know you are on your path? How do you know if you are
following your inner guidance? How do you know if you are
making a particular decision that it will be in alignment
with attaining your goals or mission? Big important questions.
Lets lay down a few metaphysical fundamentals.
course, these are just my opinions and beliefs based on years
of living life, years of studying ancient philosophies, years
of observing others and how life works. Feel free to disagree
with any or all of these fundamentals. Its your journey after
of my basic philosophies is that you should learn all you
can, keep what works for you, what empowers you, what gives
you sound direction, and throw out the rest.
METAPHYSICAL FUNDAMENTAL NUMBER ONE:
There is no ONE TRUTH. Every philosophy contains a seed of
truth. And most philosophies have been tainted with the beliefs,
fears, and judgments of the early teachers or practitioners.
Take Christianity for example. The actual words spoken by
Christ and the stories about his actions are great teachings.
They show a way to live and BE that are Divine or Unconditional
Love. Yet what is taught and practiced in many modern churches
is a far cry from the original.
First you have a king in 300 something A.D.
who decided that several of the books of the bible should
be left out. He felt they were confusing and the bible needed
to be made smaller. Much of the mystical teachings were removed
as well as ALL references to reincarnation. This is documented
Then there is the problem with translation.
First you have a Greek translation from the original Hebrew.
Then you have English translated from the Greek. Something
wonderful in the original was lost in each translation. In
some instances the translation is just flat out wrong. This
is also documented fact! Anyway, you get the idea.
METAPHYSICAL FUNDAMENTAL NUMBER TWO:
We are here to learn lessons. I believe we are all on a reincarnation
path learning lessons. With each successive reincarnation
we overcome a fear or belief that is out of alignment with
Divine Love which is our essence. I use the words Divine Love
because Unconditional Love from a conscious language point
of view puts conditions on love. If we don't get that lesson
we come back and repeat it.
Lessons, whether from this lifetime or previous
ones, are learned by us setting up situations that create
certain feelings within us. The idea is that we notice the
feelings and review why we feel that way. If the feelings
or beliefs are not from Divine Love, then we heal the feelings
and move on to another lesson.
Unfortunately most of us are not quick studies.
In fact, many of us just suck at this. We create scenario
after scenario that leave us bashed and bruised. We don't
heal and we go on and create a similar scenario again.
Relationships are a perfect example. How many
of us go from one abusive relationship to another? Or how
many people are constantly left by someone they love? It happens
at work, in love relationships, and with friends. We are all
dealing with three core fears which directly relate back to
our relationship with Creator. I won't go into them here.
METAPHYSICAL FUNDAMENTAL NUMBER THREE:
We chose this. Ouch. That one is very hard for some people
to swallow. We chose our parents. We chose our circumstances.
We chose our health. Etc., etc. We made agreements with people
before we got here (before we were born) to interact with
them in certain ways so that we could learn our lessons. Many
people refer to these agreements as our "Contracts."
These people agreed to help us set up the situations that
would bring up the certain set of feelings within us that
are necessary for us to review the feelings and heal the error
in our beliefs. How we handle each situation is totally up
to us. But, we agreed to be in the situation.
This is called taking responsibility. When
I was first introduced to this idea I got very angry. Angry
with myself. Why on earth would I choose the things I have
experienced? Why would I choose rape? Or devastatingly painful
relationship breakups? Or job restructuring? Or very strict
parents? The list seemed endless. Why would I choose these
things? Why would anyone in their right mind choose these
things? Well, I learned alot. I started looking at what each
one taught me and I was amazed. How many of the same feelings
had I created within myself because of numerous very different
scenarios? Finally, I was getting it. Of all my gifts, helping
people see the patterns, understand the emotions, discover
the underlying beliefs, and heal, is what I do best.
METAPHYSICAL FUNDAMENTAL NUMBER FOUR:
We've all on the same path. Each path may look very
different. The journey, the experiences, the beliefs we take
on, the lessons we need to learn, may look very different.
But the end result is the same. We are all coming back into
complete union, complete harmony, with ourselves and with
our Creator. We are becoming Divine Love, Complete Joy and
Happiness, Lavish Abundance, Radiant Health, Eternal Youth
and Peace. We are becoming what Creator is, because we are
part of Creator and Creator is those things. The whole path
is remembering we are not separate from Creator - we are part
of Creator, we are Creator.
My husband puts it very simply. He says, "We
are only here to do two things: to become our highest potential
(what I described above) and to help other people." I
think he is right. How we choose to help other people (our
mission) and the journey we take to become our highest potential
is up to us.
METAPHYSICAL FUNDAMENTAL NUMBER FIVE:
The only things standing in our way of attaining every goal
and desire we have are our limiting beliefs, fears, and judgments.
When those are handled, everything is possible.
METAPHYSICAL FUNDAMENTAL NUMBER SIX:
Lessons don't have to be hard or require drama to
complete. Most people really don't get this one!
There are more metaphysical fundamentals of
course, but these are the only ones necessary to complete
the discussion I originally intended. When I sat down to write
this article today, I had no idea I would be describing the
fundamentals above. Creative inspiration is always very interesting.
So, back to the original question. "How
do I know if I'm making the right decision to follow my path?"
Well if you're doing it, it's part of your path. I know! Kind
of a glib answer. Its the truth however.
I strongly believe in Fundamental Number Six.
I've done "struggle" long enough. And so have you.
When a scenario begins to present itself, evaluate it from
several angles. Ask yourself, "Am I just setting myself
up to feel the same feelings I felt when I had my last devastating
experience?" Usually you can see it coming if you only
look. If your answer is "Yes," then work to discover
what beliefs and fears you hold related to those feelings.
Sometimes you may need help from a coach or counselor to help
with this. If you realize that you are setting yourself up
once again to feel certain feelings, then you've just learned
your lesson subtly and don't have to go through some horrible
Learn to look at every little thing in your
life as a mirror. When you understand mirrors the need for
creating big bad circumstances to get lessons is all but eliminated.
People and circumstances only present themselves to accomplish
one of two things. They are either there to help you achieve
some goal you have set or they are there to teach you a lesson.
Often you can only achieve your goals if you learn your lessons
- what a crazy world we've created!
I look at all of life as mirror. If we suddenly
have a chicken in our yard I ask, "What is that about?"
Many people might initially think that I overanalyze. However,
I've learned to notice the very subtle signals and I rarely
experience undesirable circumstances. When a small glitch
like a car not working comes along, I don't get angry and
off center. I simply ask what that's about. I often quickly
get the answer. And miraculously the car usually begins to
work again. I'm
not some extraordinary person with special powers. We all
have access to the knowledge and subtle nature of the universe.
A friend recently said there were two schools
of thought about how to achieve goals as they related to roadblocks
being placed in the way. There were those who ascribed to
"breaking through" the barriers. Not letting anything
stop you no matter what. No matter how big the struggle. No
matter how ugly the demon. No matter what kind of people you
had to deal with, you should just plow through until you get
what you want.
I say, "At what expense to your health,
your emotions, your peace of mind?" That is definitely
NOT my way. I ascribe to the method that says, "read
every tiny sign and adhere to the direction and insight it
provides." When faced with a decision point or a roadblock
I always ask "Is this a lesson presenting itself so I
can learn the lesson and attain the goal?" Or, is this
the universe saying there is a better, more easy way somewhere
Also, what does your heart say? When you absolutely
know you are to do something, what signal do you get that
tells you that? Its important to figure out the signals. I
can read a book title and begin to cry. Well that's my inner
guidance saying, "Buy the book now girl." Sometimes
I "just know." Its a kind of sense of peace and
self assuredness. There is no hesitation. Just a gut feeling
you know you can trust. When I follow it, I NEVER experience
anything I would perceive as negative.
Other people have totally different ways of
recognizing their inner guidance. One of my early teachers,
Stuart Wilde, tells a story of his publicity person setting
up his tour. Stuart's "old" way of setting up his
courses was to mail a million flyers, do a few free intro
meetings, make sure several people were called, etc. He was
soon to arrive in Seattle for his seminars there. He asked
his publicist what she had done to set up for his arrival.
She said, "Nothing really. Well I have you booked on
a local television station." Stu freaked. But the publicist
had followed her intuition and done the one right thing. Because
of that one interview he had on Television, the seminar was
filled with several hundred people.
Life can be that easy.
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